Monday, November 22, 2010

Legal contract is finished

Well, it needs to be signed by all parties, but everything has been settled. A letter of completion is supposed to be sent to the fertility doctor. After they receive the letter, I can schedule my medical consultation/clearing. The appointment needs to be scheduled 6-12 days after the start of my cycle so the sonogram can be performed to check the condition of my uterus. My last period started Oct.30, so my next should be arriving in the next week. Hopefully, the appt. can be scheduled for this coming month, rather than waiting a whole other month. I am supposed to call the fertility doctor back at the end of the week.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Legal contract phase

The legal contracts are going back and forth with questions and minor changes. It can be a little stressful at times, making sure everyone is protected and feels secure with moving forward. We all are taking medical, emotional, and financial risks. I understand the need for all the legal issues to be hammered out. However, I am looking forward to it being finalized and getting on to the pregnancy and passing on a much desired baby to a loving family. During the legal phase, we are advised to forward all questions to the attorney, not the intended parents, or anyone else. I understand this, but have not liked not being able to talk to the parents. I look forward to being done with this phase and sharing a pregnancy with the parents. Hopefully, this part will be completed soon.